As Christ Followers, we don’t get to pick sides in a dispute. We love everyone and want all to be blessed and to know the power of the love of God intimately and personally. Love is what matters. We all have been given a ministry of reconciliation. If we reconcile to Christ then our heart is changed. No more room for judgement or criticism. Romans 8:1 says there is no condemnation (giving or receiving) for those who are in Christ.